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Volume 7, Book 62, Number 116
Narrated 'Abdullah bin 'Umar:
The Prophet said, "Everyone of you is a guardian and everyone of you
is responsible (for his wards). A ruler is a guardian and is
responsible(for his subjects); a man is a guardian of his family and
responsible (for them); a wife is a guardian of her husband's house
and she is responsible (for it), a slave is a guardian of his
master's property and is responsible (for that). Beware! All of you
are guardians and are responsible (for your wards)."
Volume 7, Book 62, Number 117
Narrated 'Aisha:
Eleven women sat (at a place) and promised and contracted that they
would not conceal anything of the news of their husbands. The first
one said, "My husband is like the meat of a lean weak camel which is
kept on the top of a mountain which is neither easy to climb, nor is
the meat fat, so that one might put up with the trouble of fetching
it." The second one said, "I shall not relate my husband's news, for
I fear that I may not be able to finish his story, for if I describe
him, I will mention all his defects and bad traits." The third one
said, "My husband is a tall man; if I describe him (and he hears of
that) he will divorce me, and if I keep quiet, he will neither
divorce me nor treat me as a wife." The fourth one said, "My husband
is a moderate person like the night of Tihama which is neither hot
nor cold. I am neither afraid of him, nor am I discontented with
him." The fifth one said, "My husband, when entering (the house) is
a leopard, and when going out, is a lion. He does not ask about
whatever is in the house." The sixth one said, "If my husband eats.
he eats too much (leaving the dishes empty), and if he drinks he
leaves nothing, and if he sleeps he sleeps alone (away from me)
covered in garments and does not stretch his hands here and there so
as to know how I fare (get along)." The seventh one said, "My
husband is a wrong-doer or weak and foolish. All the defects are
present in him. He may injure your head or your body or may do
both." The eighth one said, "My husband is soft to touch like a
rabbit and smells like a Zarnab (a kind of good smelling grass)."
The ninth one said, "My husband is a tall generous man wearing a
long strap for carrying his sword. His ashes are abundant and his
house is near to the people who would easily consult him." The tenth
one said, "My husband is Malik, and what is Malik? Malik is greater
than whatever I say about him. (He is beyond and above all praises
which can come to my mind). Most of his camels are kept at home
(ready to be slaughtered for the guests) and only a few are taken to
the pastures. When the camels hear the sound of the lute (or the
tambourine) they realize that they are going to be slaughtered for
the guests." The eleventh one said, "My husband is Abu Zar and what
is Abu Zar (i.e., what should I say about him)? He has given me many
ornaments and my ears are heavily loaded with them and my arms have
become fat (i.e., I have become fat). And he has pleased me, and I
have become so happy that I feel proud of myself. He found me with
my family who were mere owners of sheep and living in poverty, and
brought me to a respected family having horses and camels and
threshing and purifying grain . Whatever I say, he does not rebuke
or insult me. When I sleep, I sleep till late in the morning, and
when I drink water (or milk), I drink my fill. The mother of Abu Zar
and what may one say in praise of the mother of Abu Zar? Her saddle
bags were always full of provision and her house was spacious. As
for the son of Abu Zar, what may one say of the son of Abu Zar? His
bed is as narrow as an unsheathed sword and an arm of a kid (of four
months) satisfies his hunger. As for the daughter of Abu Zar, she is
obedient to her father and to her mother. She has a fat well-built
body and that arouses the jealousy of her husband's other wife. As
for the (maid) slave girl of Abu Zar, what may one say of the (maid)
slavegirl of Abu Zar? She does not uncover our secrets but keeps
them, and does not waste our provisions and does not leave the
rubbish scattered everywhere in our house." The eleventh lady added,
"One day it so happened that Abu Zar went out at the time when the
milk was being milked from the animals, and he saw a woman who had
two sons like two leopards playing with her two breasts. (On seeing
her) he divorced me and married her. Thereafter I married a noble
man who used to ride a fast tireless horse and keep a spear in his
hand. He gave me many things, and also a pair of every kind of
livestock and said, 'Eat (of this), O Um Zar, and give provision to
your relatives." She added, "Yet, all those things which my second
husband gave me could not fill the smallest utensil of Abu Zar's."
'Aisha then said: Allah's Apostle said to me, "I am to you as Abu
Zar was to his wife Um Zar."
Volume 7, Book 62, Number 118
Narrated 'Ursa:
Aisha said, "While the Ethiopians were playing with their small
spears, Allah's Apostle screened me behind him and I watched (that
display) and kept on watching till I left on my own." So you may
estimate of what age a little girl may listen to amusement.
Volume 7, Book 62, Number 119
Narrated Ibn 'Abbas :
I had been eager to ask 'Umar bin Al-Khattab about the two ladies
from among the wives of the Prophet regarding whom Allah said 'If
you two (wives of the Prophet namely Aisha and Hafsa) turn in
repentance to Allah, your hearts are indeed so inclined (to oppose
what the Prophet likes). (66.4) till 'Umar performed the Hajj and I
too, performed the Hajj along with him. (On the way) 'Umar went
aside to answer the call of nature, and I also went aside along with
him carrying a tumbler full of water, and when 'Umar had finished
answering the call of nature, I poured water over his hands and he
performed the ablution. Then I said to him, "O chief of the
Believers! Who were the two ladies from among the wives of the
Prophet regarding whom Allah said: 'If you two (wives of the
Prophet) turn in repentance to Allah your hearts are indeed so
inclined (to oppose what the Prophet likes)?" (66.4) He said, "I am
astonished at your question, O Ibn Abbas. They were 'Aisha and
Hafsa." Then 'Umar went on narrating the Hadith and said, "I and an
Ansari neighbor of mine from Bani Umaiyya bin Zaid who used to live
in Awali-al-Medina, used to visit the Prophet in turn. He used to go
one day and I another day. When I went, I would bring him the news
of what had happened that day regarding the Divine Inspiration and
other things, and when he went, he used to do the same for me. We,
the people of Quraish used to have the upper hand over our wives,
but when we came to the Ansar, we found that their women had the
upper hand over their men, so our women also started learning the
ways of the Ansari women. I shouted at my wife and she retorted
against me and I disliked that she should answer me back. She said
to me, 'Why are you so surprised at my answering you back? By Allah,
the wives of the Prophet answer him back and some of them may leave
(does not speak to) him throughout the day till the night.' The
(talk) scared me and I said to her, 'Whoever has done so will be
ruined!' Then I proceeded after dressing myself, and entered upon
Hafsa and said to her, 'Does anyone of you keep the Prophet angry
till night?' She said, 'Yes.' I said, 'You are a ruined losing
person! Don't you fear that Allah may get angry for the anger of
Allah's Apostle and thus you will be ruined? So do not ask more from
the Prophet and do not answer him back and do not give up talking to
him. Ask me whatever you need and do not be tempted to imitate your
neighbor (i.e., 'Aisha) in her manners for she is more charming than
you and more beloved to the Prophet ." Umar added,"At that time a
talk was circulating among us that (the tribe of) Ghassan were
preparing their horses to invade us. My Ansari companion, on the day
of his turn, went (to the town) and returned to us at night and
knocked at my door violently and asked if I was there. I became
horrified and came out to him. He said, 'Today a great thing has
happened.' I asked, 'What is it? Have (the people of) Ghassan come?'
He said, 'No, but (What has happened) is greater and more horrifying
than that: Allah's Apostle; has divorced his wives. 'Umar added,
"The Prophet kept away from his wives and I said "Hafsa is a ruined
loser.' I had already thought that most probably this (divorce)
would happen in the near future. So I dressed myself and offered the
morning prayer with the Prophet and then the Prophet; entered an
upper room and stayed there in seclusion. I entered upon Hafsa and
saw her weeping. I asked, 'What makes you weep? Did I not warn you
about that? Did the Prophet divorce you all?' She said, 'I do not
know. There he is retired alone in the upper room.' I came out and
sat near the pulpit and saw a group of people sitting around it and
some of them were weeping. I sat with them for a while but could not
endure the situation, so I went to the upper room where the Prophet;
was and said to a black slave of his, 'Will you get the permission
(of the Prophet ) for 'Umar (to enter)?' The slave went in, talked
to the Prophet about it and then returned saying, 'I have spoken to
the Prophet and mentioned you but he kept quiet.' Then I returned
and sat with the group of people sitting near the pulpit. but I
could not bear the situation and once again I said to the slave,
'Will you get the permission for 'Umar?' He went in and returned
saying, 'I mentioned you to him but he kept quiet.' So I returned
again and sat with the group of people sitting near the pulpit, but
I could not bear the situation, and so I went to the slave and said,
'Will you get the permission for 'Umar?' He went in and returned to
me saying, 'I mentioned you to him but he kept quiet.' When I was
leaving, behold! The slave called me, saying, 'The Prophet has given
you permission.' Then I entered upon Allah's Apostle and saw him
Lying on a bed made of stalks of date palm leaves and there was no
bedding between it and him. The stalks left marks on his side and he
was leaning on a leather pillow stuffed with date-palm fires. I
greeted him and while still standing I said, 'O Allah's Apostle!
Have you divorced your wives?' He looked at me and said, 'No.' I
said, 'Allah Akbar!' And then, while still standing, I said
chatting, 'Will you heed what I say, O Allah's Apostle? We, the
people of Quraish used to have power over our women, but when we
arrived at Medina we found that the men (here) were overpowered by
their women.' The Prophet smiled and then I said to him, 'Will you
heed what I say, O Allah's Apostle? I entered upon Hafsa and said to
her, "Do not be tempted to imitate your companion ('Aisha), for she
is more charming than you and more beloved to the Prophet.' " The
Prophet smiled for a second time. When I saw him smiling, I sat
down. Then I looked around his house, and by Allah, I could not see
anything of importance in his house except three hides, so I said,
'O Allah's Apostle! Invoke Allah to make your followers rich, for
the Persians and the Romans have been made prosperous and they have
been given (the pleasures of the world), although they do not
worship Allah.' Thereupon the Prophet sat up as he was reclining.
and said, 'Are you of such an opinion, O the son of Al-Khattab?
These are the people who have received the rewards for their good
deeds in this world.' I said, 'O Allah's Apostle! Ask Allah to
forgive me.' Then the Prophet kept away from his wives for
twenty-nine days because of the story which Hafsa had disclosed to
'Aisha. The Prophet had said, 'I will not enter upon them (my wives)
for one month,' because of his anger towards them, when Allah had
admonished him. So, when twenty nine days had passed, the Prophet
first entered upon 'Aisha. 'Aisha said to him, 'O Allah's Apostle!
You had sworn that you would not enter upon us for one month, but
now only twenty-nine days have passed, for I have been counting them
one by one.' The Prophet said, 'The (present) month is of twenty
nine days.' 'Aisha added, 'Then Allah revealed the Verses of the
option. (2) And out of all his-wives he asked me first, and I chose
him.' Then he gave option to his other wives and they said what
'Aisha had said . " (1) The Prophet, ' had decided to abstain from
eating a certain kind of food because of a certain event, so Allah
blamed him for doing so. Some of his wives were the cause of him
taking that decision, therefore he deserted them for one month. See
Quran: (66.4)
Volume 7, Book 62, Number 120
Narrated Abu Huraira:
The Prophet said, "A woman should not fast (optional fasts) except
with her husband's permission if he is at home (staying with her)."
Volume 7, Book 62, Number 121
Narrated Abu Huraira:
The Prophet said, "If a man Invites his wife to sleep with him and
she refuses to come to him, then the angels send their curses on her
till morning."
Volume 7, Book 62, Number 122
Narrated Abu Huraira:
The Prophet said, "If a woman spends the night deserting her
husband's bed (does not sleep with him), then the angels send their
curses on her till she comes back (to her husband)."
Volume 7, Book 62, Number 123
Narrated Abu Huraira:
Allah's Apostle said, "It is not lawful for a lady to fast (Nawafil)
without the permission of her husband when he is at home; and she
should not allow anyone to enter his house except with his
permission; and if she spends of his wealth (on charitable purposes)
without being ordered by him, he will get half of the reward."
Volume 7, Book 62, Number 124
Narrated Usama:
The Prophet said, "I stood at the gate of Paradise and saw that the
majority of the people who entered it were the poor, while the
wealthy were stopped at the gate (for the accounts). But the
companions of the Fire were ordered to be taken to the Fire. Then I
stood at the gate of the Fire and saw that the majority of those who
entered it were women."
Volume 7, Book 62, Number 125
Narrated 'Abdullah bin Abbas:
During the lifetime of Allah's Apostle, the sun eclipsed. Allah's
Apostle offered the prayer of (the) eclipse) and so did the people
along with him. He performed a long Qiyam (standing posture) during
which Surat-al-Baqara could have been recited; then he performed a
pro-longed bowing, then raised his head and stood for a long time
which was slightly less than that of the first Qiyam (and recited
Qur'an). Then he performed a prolonged bowing again but the period
was shorter than the period of the first bowing, then he stood up
and then prostrated. Again he stood up, but this time the period of
standing was less than the first standing. Then he performed a
prolonged bowing but of a lesser duration than the first, then he
stood up again for a long time but for a lesser duration than the
first. Then he performed a prolonged bowing but of lesser duration
than the first, and then he again stood up, and then prostrated and
then finished his prayer. By then the sun eclipse had cleared. The
Prophet then said, "The sun and the moon are two signs among the
signs of Allah, and they do not eclipse because of the death or
birth of someone, so when you observe the eclipse, remember Allah
(offer the eclipse prayer)." They (the people) said, "O Allah's
Apostle! We saw you stretching your hand to take something at this
place of yours, then we saw you stepping backward." He said, "I saw
Paradise (or Paradise was shown to me), and I stretched my hand to
pluck a bunch (of grapes), and had I plucked it, you would have
eaten of it as long as this world exists. Then I saw the (Hell)
Fire, and I have never before, seen such a horrible sight as that,
and I saw that the majority of its dwellers were women." The people
asked, "O Allah's Apostle! What is the reason for that?" He replied,
"Because of their ungratefulness." It was said. "Do they disbelieve
in Allah (are they ungrateful to Allah)?" He replied, "They are not
thankful to their husbands and are ungrateful for the favors done to
them. Even if you do good to one of them all your life, when she
seems some harshness from you, she will say, "I have never seen any
good from you.' "
Volume 7, Book 62, Number 126
Narrated Imran:
The Prophet said, "I looked at Paradise and saw that the majority of
its residents were the poor; and I looked at the (Hell) Fire and saw
that the majority of its residents were women."
Volume 7, Book 62, Number 127
Narrated 'Abdullah bin 'Amr bin Al-'As:
Allah's Apostle said, "O 'Abdullah! Have I not been formed that you
fast all the day and stand in prayer all night?" I said, "Yes, O
Allah's Apostle!" He said, "Do not do that! Observe the fast
sometimes and also leave them (the fast) at other times; stand up
for the prayer at night and also sleep at night. Your body has a
right over you, your eyes have a right over you and your wife has a
right over you."
Volume 7, Book 62, Number 128
Narrated Ibn 'Umar:
The Prophet said, "All of you are guardians and are responsible for
your wards. The ruler is a guardian and the man is a guardian of his
family; the lady is a guardian and is responsible for her husband's
house and his offspring; and so all of you are guardians and are
responsible for your wards."
Volume 7, Book 62, Number 129
Narrated Anas:
Allah's Apostle took an oath that he would not visit his wives for
one month, and he sat in an upper room belonging to him. Then, on
the twenty ninth day he came down. It was said, "O Allah's Apostle!
You had taken an oath not to visit your wives for one month." He
said, "The (present) month is of twenty-nine days."
Volume 7, Book 62, Number 130
Narrated Um Salama:
The Prophet took an oath that he would not enter upon some of his
wives for one month. But when twenty nine days had elapsed, he went
to them in the morning or evening. It was said to him, "O Allah's
Prophet! You had taken an oath that you would not enter upon them
for one month." He replied, "The month can be of twenty nine days."
Volume 7, Book 62, Number 131
Narrated Ibn 'Abbas:
One morning we saw the wives of the Prophet weeping, and everyone of
them had her family with her, I went to the mosque and found that it
was crowded with people. Then 'Umar bin Al-Khattab came and went up
to the Prophet who was in his upper room. He greeted him but nobody
answered. He greeted again, but nobody answered. Then the gatekeeper
called him and he entered upon the Prophet, and asked, "Have you
divorced your wives?" The Prophet, said, "No, but I have taken an
oath not to go to them for one month." So the Prophet stayed away
(from his wives) for twenty nine days and then entered upon them.
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Volume 7, Book 62, Number 132
Narrated 'Abdullah bin Zam'a:
The Prophet said, "None of you should flog his wife as he flogs a
slave and then have sexual intercourse with her in the last part of
the day."
Volume 7, Book 62, Number 133
Narrated 'Aisha:
An Ansari woman gave her daughter in marriage and the hair of the
latter started falling out. The Ansari women came to the Prophet and
mentioned that to him and said, "Her (my daughter's) husband
suggested that I should let her wear false hair." The Prophet said,
"No, (don't do that) for Allah sends His curses upon such ladies who
lengthen their hair artificially."
Volume 7, Book 62, Number 134
Narrated Aisha:
regarding the Verse: 'If a wife fears cruelty or desertion on her
husband's part ...') (4.128) It concerns the woman whose husband
does not want to keep her with him any longer, but wants to divorce
her and marry some other lady, so she says to him: 'Keep me and do
not divorce me, and then marry another woman, and you may neither
spend on me, nor sleep with me.' This is indicated by the Statement
of Allah: 'There is no blame on them if they arrange an amicable
settlement between them both, and (such) settlement is better." (4.128)
Volume 7, Book 62, Number 135
Narrated Jabir:
We used to practice coitus interrupt us during the lifetime of
Allah's Apostle .
Volume 7, Book 62, Number 136
Narrated Jabir:
We used to practice coitus interrupt us while the Quran was being
revealed. Jabir added: We used to practice coitus interrupt us
during the lifetime of Allah's Apostle while the Quran was being
Revealed.
Volume 7, Book 62, Number 137
Narrated Abu Said Al-Khudri:
We got female captives in the war booty and we used to do coitus
interruptus with them. So we asked Allah's Apostle about it and he
said, "Do you really do that?" repeating the question thrice, "There
is no soul that is destined to exist but will come into existence,
till the Day of Resurrection."
Volume 7, Book 62, Number 138
Narrated al-Qasim:
Aisha said that whenever the Prophet intended to go on a journey, he
drew lots among his wives (so as to take one of them along with
him). During one of his journeys the lot fell on 'Aisha and Hafsa.
When night fell the Prophet would ride beside 'Aisha and talk with
her. One night Hafsa said to 'Aisha, "Won't you ride my camel
tonight and I ride yours, so that you may see (me) and I see (you)
(in new situation)?" 'Aisha said, "Yes, (I agree.)" So 'Aisha rode,
and then the Prophet came towards 'Aisha's camel on which Hafsa was
riding. He greeted Hafsa and then proceeded (beside her) till they
dismounted (on the way). 'Aisha missed him, and so, when they
dismounted, she put her legs in the Idhkhir and said, "O Lord
(Allah)! Send a scorpion or a snake to bite me for I am not to blame
him (the Prophet ).
Volume 7, Book 62, Number 139
Narrated 'Aisha:
Sada bint Zam'a gave up her turn to me ('Aisha), and so the Prophet
used to give me ('Aisha) both my day and the day of Sad;
Volume 7, Book 62, Number 140
Narrated Anas:
The tradition, (of the Prophet) is that if someone marries a virgin
and he has already a matron wife (with him), then he should stay
with the virgin for seven days; and if someone marries a matron (and
he has already a virgin wife with him) then he should stay with her
for three days.
Volume 7, Book 62, Number 141
Narrated Anas:
It is the Prophet's tradition that if someone marries a virgin and
he has already a matron wife then he should stay for seven days with
her (the virgin) and then by turns; and if someone marries a matron
and he has already a virgin wife then he should stay with her (the
matron) for three days, and then by turns.
Volume 7, Book 62, Number 142
Narrated Anas bin Malik:
The Prophet used to pass by (have sexual relation with) all his
wives in one night, and at that time he had nine wives.
Volume 7, Book 62, Number 143
Narrated 'Aisha:
Whenever Allah's Apostle finished his 'Asr prayer, he would enter
upon his wives and stay with one of them. One day he went to Hafsa
and stayed with her longer than usual.
Volume 7, Book 62, Number 144
Narrated 'Aisha:
that during his fatal ailment, Allah's Apostle, used to ask his
wives, "Where shall I stay tomorrow? Where shall I stay tomorrow?"
He was looking forward to Aisha's turn. So all his wives allowed him
to stay where he wished, and he stayed at 'Aisha's house till he
died there. 'Aisha added: He died on the day of my usual turn at my
house. Allah took him unto Him while his head was between my chest
and my neck and his saliva was mixed with my saliva.
Volume 7, Book 62, Number 145
Narrated Ibn 'Abbas:
that 'Umar entered upon Hafsa and said, "O my daughter! Do not be
misled by the manners of her who is proud of her beauty because of
the love of Allah's Apostle for her." By 'her' he meant 'Aisha.
'Umar added, "Then I told that to Allah's Apostle and he smiled (on
hearing that)."
Volume 7, Book 62, Number 146
Narrated Asma:
Some lady said, "O Allah's Apostle! My husband has another wife, so
it is sinful of me to claim that he has given me what he has not
given me (in order to tease her)?" Allah's Apostle said, The one who
pretends that he has been given what he has not been given, is just
like the (false) one who wears two garments of falsehood."
Volume 7, Book 62, Number 147
Narrated 'Abdullah bin Masud:
The Prophet, said, "There is none having a greater sense of Ghira
than Allah. And for that He has forbidden the doing of evil actions
(illegal sexual intercourse etc.) There is none who likes to be
praised more than Allah does."
Volume 7, Book 62, Number 148
Narrated 'Aisha:
Allah's Apostle said, "O followers of Muhammad! There is none, who
has a greater sense of Ghira (self-respect) than Allah, so He has
forbidden that His slave commits illegal sexual intercourse or His
slave girl commits illegal sexual intercourse. O followers of
Muhammad! If you but knew what I know, you would laugh less and weep
more!"
Volume 7, Book 62, Number 149
Narrated Asma':
I heard Allah's Apostle saying, "There is nothing (none) having a
greater sense of Ghira (self-respect) than Allah." And narrated Abu
Huraira that he heard the Prophet (saying the same).
Volume 7, Book 62, Number 150
Narrated Abu Huraira:
The Prophet; said, "Allah has a sense of Ghira, and Allah's sense of
Ghira is provoked when a believer does something which Allah has
prohibited."
Volume 7, Book 62, Number 151
Narrated Asma' bint Abu Bakr:
When Az-Zubair married me, he had no real property or any slave or
anything else except a camel which drew water from the well, and his
horse. I used to feed his horse with fodder and drew water and sew
the bucket for drawing it, and prepare the dough, but I did not know
how to bake bread. So our Ansari neighbors used to bake bread for
me, and they were honorable ladies. I used to carry the date stones
on my head from Zubair's land given to him by Allah's Apostle and
this land was two third Farsakh (about two miles) from my house. One
day, while I was coming with the date stones on my head, I met
Allah's Apostle along with some Ansari people. He called me and
then, (directing his camel to kneel down) said, "Ikh! Ikh!" so as to
make me ride behind him (on his camel). I felt shy to travel with
the men and remembered Az-Zubair and his sense of Ghira, as he was
one of those people who had the greatest sense of Ghira. Allah's
Apostle noticed that I felt shy, so he proceeded. I came to
Az-Zubair and said, "I met Allah's Apostle while I was carrying a
load of date stones on my head, and he had some companions with him.
He made his camel kneel down so that I might ride, but I felt shy in
his presence and remembered your sense of Ghira (See the glossary).
On that Az-Zubair said, "By Allah, your carrying the date stones
(and you being seen by the Prophet in such a state) is more shameful
to me than your riding with him." (I continued serving in this way)
till Abu Bakr sent me a servant to look after the horse, whereupon I
felt as if he had set me free.
Volume 7, Book 62, Number 152
Narrated Anas:
While the Prophet was in the house of one of his wives, one of the
mothers of the believers sent a meal in a dish. The wife at whose
house the Prophet was, struck the hand of the servant, causing the
dish to fall and break. The Prophet gathered the broken pieces of
the dish and then started collecting on them the food which had been
in the dish and said, "Your mother (my wife) felt jealous." Then he
detained the servant till a (sound) dish was brought from the wife
at whose house he was. He gave the sound dish to the wife whose dish
had been broken and kept the broken one at the house where it had
been broken.
Volume 7, Book 62, Number 153
Narrated Jabir:
The Prophet, said, "I entered Paradise and saw a palace and asked
whose palace is this? They (the Angels) said, "This palace belongs
to 'Umar bin Al-Khattab.' I intended to enter it, and nothing
stopped me except my knowledge about your sense of Ghira
(self-respect (O Umar)." 'Umar said, "O Allah's Apostle! Let my
father and mother be sacrificed for you! O Allah's Prophet! How dare
I think of my Ghira (self-respect) being offended by you?"
Volume 7, Book 62, Number 154
Narrated Abu Huraira:
While we were sitting with Allah's Apostle, (he) Allah's Apostle
said, "While I was sleeping, I saw a woman performing ablution
beside a palace. I asked, "Whose palace is this?' It was said, 'This
palace belongs to 'Umar.' Then I remembered his sense of Ghira and
returned." On that 'Umar started weeping in that gathering and said,
"O Allah's Apostle! How dare I think of my self-respect being
offended by you?"
Volume 7, Book 62, Number 155
Narrated Aisha:
That Allah's Apostle said to her, "I you are pleased with me or
angry with me." I said, "Whence do you know that?" He said, "When
you are pleased with me, you say, 'No, by the Lord of Muhammad,' but
when you are angry with me, then you say, 'No, by the Lord of
Abraham.' " Thereupon I said, "Yes (you are right), but by Allah, O
Allah's Apostle, I leave nothing but your name."
Volume 7, Book 62, Number 156
Narrated 'Aisha:
I never felt so jealous of any wife of Allah's Apostle as I did of
Khadija because Allah's Apostle used to remember and praise her too
often and because it was revealed to Allah's Apostle that he should
give her (Khadija) the glad tidings of her having a palace of Qasab
in Paradise .
Volume 7, Book 62, Number 157
Narrated Al-Miswar bin Makhrama:
I heard Allah's Apostle who was on the pulpit, saying, "Banu Hisham
bin Al-Mughira have requested me to allow them to marry their
daughter to Ali bin Abu Talib, but I don't give permission, and will
not give permission unless 'Ali bin Abi Talib divorces my daughter
in order to marry their daughter, because Fatima is a part of my
body, and I hate what she hates to see, and what hurts her, hurts me."
Volume 7, Book 62, Number 158
Narrated Anas:
I will narrate to you a Habith I heard from Allah's Apostle and none
other than I will tell you of it. I heard Allah's Apostle saying,
"From among the portents of the Hour are the following: Religious
knowledge will be taken away; General ignorance (in religious
matters) will increase; illegal Sexual intercourse will prevail:
Drinking of alcoholic drinks will prevail. Men will decrease in
number, and women will increase in number, so much so that fifty
women will be looked after by one man."
Volume 7, Book 62, Number 159
Narrated 'Uqba bin 'Amir:
Allah's Apostle said, "Beware of entering upon the ladies." A man
from the Ansar said, "Allah's Apostle! What about Al-Hamu the
in-laws of the wife (the brothers of her husband or his nephews
etc.)?" The Prophet replied: The in-laws of the wife are death itself.
Volume 7, Book 62, Number 160
Narrated Ibn 'Abbas :
The Prophet said, "No man should stay with a lady in seclusion
except in the presence of a Dhu-Muhram." A man stood up and said, "O
Allah's Apostle! My wife has gone out intending to perform the Hajj
and I have been enrolled (in the army) for such-and-such campaign."
The Prophet said, "Return and perform the Hajj with your wife."
Volume 7, Book 62, Number 161
Narrated Anas bin Malik:
An Ansari woman came to the Prophet and he took her aside and said
(to her). "By Allah, you (Ansar) are the most beloved people to me."
Volume 7, Book 62, Number 162
Narrated Um Salama:
that while the Prophet was with her, there was an effeminate man in
the house. The effeminate man said to Um Salama's brother, 'Abdullah
bin Abi Umaiyya, "If Allah should make you conquer Ta'if tomorrow, I
recommend that you take the daughter of Ghailan (in marriage) for
(she is so fat) that she shows four folds of flesh when facing you
and eight when she turns her back." Thereupon the Prophet said (to
us), "This (effeminate man) should not enter upon you (anymore)."
Volume 7, Book 62, Number 163
Narrated 'Aisha:
The Prophet was screening me with his Rida' (garment covering the
upper part of the body) while I was looking at the Ethiopians who
were playing in the courtyard of the mosque. (I continued watching)
till I was satisfied. So you may deduce from this event how a little
girl (who has not reached the age of puberty) who is eager to enjoy
amusement should be treated in this respect.
Volume 7, Book 62, Number 164
Narrated 'Aisha:
Once Sada bint Zam'a went out at night for some need, and 'Umar saw
her, and recognizing her, he said (to her), "By Allah, O Sada! You
cannot hide yourself from us." So she returned to the Prophet and
mentioned that to him while he was sitting in my dwelling taking his
supper and holding a bone covered with meat in his hand. Then the
Divine Inspiration was revealed to him and when that state was over,
he (the Prophet was saying: "O women! You have been allowed by Allah
to go out for your needs."
Volume 7, Book 62, Number 165
Narrated Salim's father:
The Prophet said, "If the wife of anyone of you asks permission to
go to the mosque, he should not forbid her."
Volume 7, Book 62, Number 166
Narrated 'Aisha:
My foster uncle came and asked permission (to enter) but I refused
to admit him till I asked Allah's Apostle about that. He said, "He
is your uncle, so allow him to come in." I said, "O Allah's Apostle!
I have been suckled by a woman and not by a man." Allah's Apostle
said, "He is your uncle, so let him enter upon you." And that
happened after the order of Al-Hijab (compulsory veiling) was
revealed. All things which become unlawful because of blood
relations are unlawful because of the corresponding foster suckling
relations.
Volume 7, Book 62, Number 167
Narrated 'Abdullah bin Mas'ud:
The Prophet said, "A woman should not look at or touch another woman
to describe her to her
husband in such a way as if he was actually looking at her."
Volume 7, Book 62, Number 168
Narrated 'Abdullah:
The Prophet said, "A woman should not look at or touch another woman
to describe her to her husband in such a way as if he was actually
looking at her."
Volume 7, Book 62, Number 169
Narrated Abu Huraira:
(The Prophet) Solomon son of (the Prophet) David said, "Tonight I
will go round (i.e. have sexual relations with) one hundred women
(my wives) everyone of whom will deliver a male child who will fight
in Allah's Cause." On that an Angel said to him, "Say: 'If Allah
will.' " But Solomon did not say it and forgot to say it. Then he
had sexual relations with them but none of them delivered any child
except one who delivered a half person. The Prophet said, "If
Solomon had said: 'If Allah will,' Allah would have fulfilled his
(above) desire and that saying would have made him more hopeful."
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